F the Nice Guy

Welcome to the F the ”Nice Guy” Podcast where we unload all our stories about the ”nice guy”. You know... the guys who tricked us into believing they were nice... until they didn’t get what they wanted and proved how not nice they really were. There will be sharing sessions, interviews, and viewer submitted stories! If you have a ”nice guy” story to share that is trauma lite (no crimes or violence) send it to ftheniceguypodcast@gmail.com.

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Episodes

2 days ago

In a world where so many horrible men have podcasts, it's refreshing to hear a self proclaimed "neutral" podcaster who kindly and calmly discusses "important" issues. But often these "nice guys" are just wolves in sheep's clothing pushing the same misogynistic BS in prettier packaging. 
This week we've brought on one of my favorite creators Therese Lee to breakdown one such man. Buckle up my friends, this one's a doozy. 
 
THERESE'S LINKS
Youtube
Tiktok
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page
 

The Bumble Fumble

Saturday May 18, 2024

Saturday May 18, 2024

When a "feminist" brand made for women by women puts up billboards with taglines like "Thou Shalt Not Give Up On Dating and Become A Nun"... you know you've got a problem.
But this advertising choice is not as off brand for Bumble as you may think. Follow us down the rabbit hole.. or rather take this hike down the hive as we breakdown the Bumble fumble. 
 
Go Fund Me's of The Families
Kate's Family: Nada Alaraj & Her 3 Little Girls
Regan's Family: Yousra Saving Her Sick Dad
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page
 
 

Saturday May 11, 2024

Kendrick Lamar and Drake are in the midst of an epic rap beef with Kendrick bringing up one particularly damning and disturbing topic... Drake's inappropriate behavior with underage girls. But for those of us who've been paying attention, this is not new information. He's been creepy. He's just had no push back. And he's not the only one. 
 
On this week's episode, Kate is back and we're breaking down some of Hollywood's worst creeps who somehow have gotten away with it, what they did, and why we think they've been getting away with it. Believe me when I say, buckle up. 
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page
 

Saturday May 04, 2024

We're back to finish our conversation on grooming... so buckle up because this conversation is a rough ride. As we jump back in, we're diving into why people stay, why they go back, and all of the other "questionable" things people in "groomed" relationships do that actually make perfect sense once you understand the dynamics. This is not an easy listen, but it may be our most important episode yet. 
 
TW: Mentions of grooming and hints at abuse (no specific details) 
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page
 
 

Saturday May 04, 2024

This may be our most important episode yet. Inspired by Baby Reindeer and our own experiences, Kate and I are discussing grooming. We get into what it is, what tactics they us, how common it is with teenage girls and mid 20's men, and really dig deep into our own experiences to make sense of the things that happened to us. 
TW: Grooming and mentions (without details) of abuse 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Saturday Apr 20, 2024

So a few weeks ago we talked about the terrible things our ex's did and we STILL stayed. Then someone asked us a question. WHY? Why would we stay with men who were doing unquestionably awful things. Victim blaming aside, the answer to that is complicated... but we're breaking it down. Hopefully some of you can relate. 
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Saturday Apr 13, 2024

This week's episode is a little different because it's actually a story Chesko and I shared on our other podcast - Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater (a name so lovingly given to us by an internet troll despite the fact that I don't hate men and Chesko has been picked). It's an AITA from reddit and honestly it's just too good not to share here so buckle up because this one is a DOOZY! 
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Saturday Apr 06, 2024

There's a trend going around on Tiktok of people saying the worst things their exs did and they STILL stayed. Well, this trend is right up our alley. Kate's back and we sharing our 100% true and 100% embarrassing stories that include being abandoned at a golf course, being told asthma is all in our head, peeing on clean laundry, texting other girls that you love them, and so much more! 
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

Saturday Mar 30, 2024

If you're on the Feminist side of Tiktok, a certain "alpha" "dom" "dating coach" may have been dominating your feeds lately. And yes, all of those quotes are necessary. But if you think you know how bad he is, you've only seen the tip of the douche-berg... because we've found his "podcast pilot". So buckle up as Regan and Abby Rosmarin do a deep dive to prove that this seemingly misguided guy is much more harmful than he appears... 
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon: Patreon Page
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page
 
Abby Rosmarin's Links
Tiktok: abbyrosmarin --> Make sure to check out their Linktree 
Insta: abbyrosmarin
And make sure to search for her books online! 
 

Saturday Mar 23, 2024

When I say "Nice Guy", you say "Covert Narcissist"!
Well, at least the internet does. That's why I've brought on Eleni Sagredos, the author of But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse & Narcissistic People. We're talking about the "Nice Guys" who take so far that they're giving... a personality disorder. 
 
Eleni's Links
Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense 
Eleni's AMAZING book!
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page
 

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Welcome to the F the "Nice Guy" Podcast

This is the podcast where we share our "nice guy" stories! You know... the guys that wear niceness like a mask to get what they want. But drop that mask as soon as they don't get what they want? Yeah. Those guys. 

 

And if you have your own story about a "nice guy" that is trauma lite (no crimes or violence) please submit it to ftheniceguypodcast@gmail.com

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