F the Nice Guy

We Need to Talk About Grooming (Part 1)

This may be our most important episode yet. Inspired by Baby Reindeer and our own experiences, Kate and I are discussing grooming. We get into what it is, what tactics they us, how common it is with teenage girls and mid 20's men, and really dig deep into our own experiences to make sense of the things that happened to us. 
TW: Grooming and mentions (without details) of abuse 
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Why We Stayed With Our Terrible Exs (With Kate)

So a few weeks ago we talked about the terrible things our ex's did and we STILL stayed. Then someone asked us a question. WHY? Why would we stay with men who were doing unquestionably awful things. Victim blaming aside, the answer to that is complicated... but we're breaking it down. Hopefully some of you can relate. 
 
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"Nice Guy" Redditors, Pranking Brothers, Coddling Mothers, OH MY!

This week's episode is a little different because it's actually a story Chesko and I shared on our other podcast - Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater (a name so lovingly given to us by an internet troll despite the fact that I don't hate men and Chesko has been picked). It's an AITA from reddit and honestly it's just too good not to share here so buckle up because this one is a DOOZY! 
 
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Things Our Exs Did And We STILL Stayed (With Kate)

There's a trend going around on Tiktok of people saying the worst things their exs did and they STILL stayed. Well, this trend is right up our alley. Kate's back and we sharing our 100% true and 100% embarrassing stories that include being abandoned at a golf course, being told asthma is all in our head, peeing on clean laundry, texting other girls that you love them, and so much more! 
 
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Everything Wrong With Alpha Dom (It's Worse Than You Think)

If you're on the Feminist side of Tiktok, a certain "alpha" "dom" "dating coach" may have been dominating your feeds lately. And yes, all of those quotes are necessary. But if you think you know how bad he is, you've only seen the tip of the douche-berg... because we've found his "podcast pilot". So buckle up as Regan and Abby Rosmarin do a deep dive to prove that this seemingly misguided guy is much more harmful than he appears... 
 
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Insta: abbyrosmarin
And make sure to search for her books online! 
 

When I Say "Nice Guy", You Say "Covert Narcissist"

When I say "Nice Guy", you say "Covert Narcissist"!
Well, at least the internet does. That's why I've brought on Eleni Sagredos, the author of But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse & Narcissistic People. We're talking about the "Nice Guys" who take so far that they're giving... a personality disorder. 
 
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Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense 
Eleni's AMAZING book!
 
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When the Other Woman...Is Your MOM

Buckle all the way up friends because this "nice guy" horror story is almost to messed up to believe... if we didn't have all the receipts. My guest Catherine's life was turned into a Jerry Springer-esque nightmare when her "nice guy" husband was caught cheating. But not with just anyone... WITH HER OWN MOTHER.
We're breaking down what led up to this, all the bizarre and horrifying details, and how Catherine has chosen the highroad of healing. 
 
Catherine's Tiktok - KATenacious
 
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When A Groom Says I Do... Not Care About Our Wedding (Part 2)

Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater have returned to bring you Part 2 of these HORRIBLE wedding vows. And if you thought the last guy was bad... buckle up. 
 
We're breaking down terrible vows, talking about the ACTUAL BS double standards when it comes to holding bad men accountable, going on a couple tangents, and giving you a very exciting update about our new podcast Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater! 
 
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When A Groom Says I Do... Not Care About Our Wedding (Part 1)

The Dynamic Duo is back - Chesko and Regan... or as an internet troll named us... Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater!
On today's episode we're taking on our worst villains yet... grooms who go out of their way to humiliate their brides on their wedding day. 
We'll be talking about violent cake smashers and breaking down some viral videos of absolutely disgusting wedding vows. We're really trying to get to the heart (or lack their of) of why these men feel the need to destroy, demean, and degrade on supposedly the "happiest day" of their lives. 
 
And make sure to listen to the outro because we have a SPECIAL announcement! 
 
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Lessons in Decentering Men From A Recovering "Cool Girl" With Melanie Hamlett (Part 2)

If you haven't yet, make sure to listen to Part 1 of this episode.
But, Melanie Hamlett is back and we're talking more about decentering men, the "healed Hollywood man" who refuses to be accountable, why platonic love is so necessary, and so much more! 
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