F the Nice Guy

Love Is Blind...ly Bringing You A "Nice Guy"

This week is an extra long episode, but what would you expect when Kate and Regan are breaking down this season of Love is Blind?!? And might we just say... this season may be the worst yet. The damage isn't being done by blatant assholes. It's being done by "nice", "feminist", "god-loving" gentlemen". Grab a drink, grab a snack, and buckle up because we're taking you through this season and all it's jaw dropping twists and turns. 
 
Black Honey. Jamila recently had a run-in with a "nice guy" self-proclaimed patriarchy deconstructor. He made a video about how women need to stop taking it out on men, let go of the "I hate men" mantra, and heal the trauma they "let" men give them so that they can be in community with "the good men".
When Jamila tried to tell him it was a bad take, things went from bad to worse where he literally laughs in their face. Buckle up friends, this one is a hypocritical infuriating doozy. 
 
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Women... Heal Your Trauma So You're Fun To Hang Out With (With Jamila)

This week Regan's joined by the amazing Jamila aka Tiktok's Bright Black Honey. Jamila recently had a run-in with a "nice guy" self-proclaimed patriarchy deconstructor. He made a video about how women need to stop taking it out on men, let go of the "I hate men" mantra, and heal the trauma they "let" men give them so that they can be in community with "the good men".
When Jamila tried to tell him it was a bad take, things went from bad to worse where he literally laughs in their face. Buckle up friends, this one is a hypocritical infuriating doozy. 
 
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Jamila's Arbitrator Video
 

Regan and Kate Take On Reddit

We're back baby! On this week's episode, we're appealing Reddit's verdict on whether or not a mom who was disappointed in her 40th birthday is the asshole. We've got the facts, the anecdotal evidence, and all the opinions. In the end, you get to be the judge! 
 
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When A Woman Asks Men On Tiktok A Question And A "Nice Guy" Has "All The Answers"

Recently a woman online did the unthinkable... she asked men on Tiktok "Why are you all seemingly resistant to evolving the definition of manhood you simultaneously hate to live by?" 
Of course, many men had many things to say. But one man in particular caught our attention. He presents himself as a "nice guy", a "reasonable guy", and seemingly a "guy who gets it". But when you break down his argument you see... what he really is... is WRONG. 
Kate and Regan are dissecting this "nice guy" argument to hopefully help you all be able to defend yourselves against similar men with similar tactics and talking points. Buckle up because it's a doozy and quite honestly a RANT. 
 
IMPORTANT NOTE: Regan is going out of town so this week we did an extra-long episode. Instead of cutting it into two episodes, we left it as is and will be skipping posting next week. Then back to our regular schedule. 
 
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When "Nice Guys" Did You Dirtier Than You Remember (Part 2)

We're back with Part 2 of our discussion about the "nice guys" that did us dirtier than we remembered. And this week we're talking about two stories that we unpacked recently - meaning our conversation is a little more raw than normal. 
 
Oh and ... Fun Fact - Regan has some horrible virus this week so apologies for the scary intro. 
 
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When "Nice Guys" Did You Dirtier Than You Remember (Part 1)

Have you ever had the unfortunate displeasure of realizing that the "Nice Guy" from your past was even worse than you remember? This week Kate and Regan are taking a journey down memory lane to unpack the "nice guy" situations that they now realized they were seeing through rose-colored glasses.
In part one, we talk about the guy who stalked Regan for 2 years in college and the school's administration that excused, ignored, and frankly facilitated his abuse. And yes, we are bringing receipts. 
 
EPISODES MENTIONED: 
"Nice Guys", Mean Girls, Stalkers, OH MY! (Date: March 25, 2023) 
 
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Class is In Session... Narcissism 101 (Part 2)

We're back with Eleni to finish off our conversation on narcissism. Picking up right where we left off, we're talking about the discard, hoovering, reverse hoovering, and our final thoughts on the narcissism cycle and red flags. 
Oh and lucky for you... the audio is better! 
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Eleni's AMAZING book!
 
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Class is in Session... Narcissism 101 (Part 1)

We talk a lot about Narcissism on this podcast, but this week we're taking it back to basics. So I've brought back my favorite "Nice Guy" Narcissist expert Eleni Sagredos. We're breaking down the basics, sharing stories, and giving you some red flags to look out for. 
 
And shocker... we had a lot to say so this will be a two part episode. 
 
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When "Nice Guys" Cheat... For the Lord?

For this week's episode, we're sharing a super interesting conversation from my other podcast - the Mr. Pick Me and Manhater Podcast that you all are going to love... or hate? Hate to love? 
It's the story of a man who cheats on his pregnant wife - told by the woman he betrayed. But this isn't a tragic tale. No, no, no. According to them, this is an inspirational tale of a woman who stood by her man for the Lord. This is about HER strength (not HIS transgressions). And believe me, transgressions is PLURAL.
And not only does this couple think they are the picture of true love, they think they are qualified to be both relationship and faith coaches for other couples. Listen to the episode and let me know if you think they're qualified. 
 
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Ballerina Farms & The Truth Behind Trad Wives

When it comes to Trad Wives, we can all agree that they're looking to take us back to olden times. Little did they know, the Times would be the one to deliver the biggest blow to the facade they attempt to project.  And by Times, we mean the New York Times. 
On today's episode we are talking about Ballerina Farms and more specifically Hannah Neeleman. And while it may be hard to find sympathy for someone pushing this lifestyle, in this episode we break down how this life may not be all that it seems... and not at all what Hannah had in mind. I wonder whose idea it was.... 
 
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