F the Nice Guy

When A Groom Says I Do... Not Care About Our Wedding (Part 1)

The Dynamic Duo is back - Chesko and Regan... or as an internet troll named us... Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater!
On today's episode we're taking on our worst villains yet... grooms who go out of their way to humiliate their brides on their wedding day. 
We'll be talking about violent cake smashers and breaking down some viral videos of absolutely disgusting wedding vows. We're really trying to get to the heart (or lack their of) of why these men feel the need to destroy, demean, and degrade on supposedly the "happiest day" of their lives. 
 
And make sure to listen to the outro because we have a SPECIAL announcement! 
 
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Lessons in Decentering Men From A Recovering "Cool Girl" With Melanie Hamlett (Part 2)

If you haven't yet, make sure to listen to Part 1 of this episode.
But, Melanie Hamlett is back and we're talking more about decentering men, the "healed Hollywood man" who refuses to be accountable, why platonic love is so necessary, and so much more! 
MELANIE HAMLETT'S LINKS
https://www.melaniehamlett.com/publications
Mel's Tiktok
Mel's Youtube
 
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When A Straight Guy Goes to A Lesbian Bar...

Today's  title sounds like the start of a bad joke... but this experience was anything but funny for our guest Katie aka @im.that.lesbian. 
 
This story blew up  when a straight women complained about a bad experience she had when bringing a straight man to a lesbian bar. She tells us an unprovoked and seemingly angry lesbian asked "what are you doing here" to her "nice guy" friend. The video ends with her asking for feedback and boy...did queertok deliver. 
 
That's when Katie (that "angry" lesbian) entered the chat to tell us what REALLY happened. Not only was the man acting out of line and entitled, but the whole experience was just one of many bad experiences queer women face when straight men come to lesbian bars.
 
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Katie's Tiktok
 
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Lessons in Decentering Men From A Recovering "Cool Girl" With Melanie Hamlett (Part 1)

You all asked for it.... and it's finally here.
This week's episode we are joined by Mel Hamlett. As a self-proclaimed recovering "cool girl" Mel has some unbelievable stories about what the "cool girl" goes through, what made her say f*** that, and how she began the journey of decentering men. Believe me when I say... buckle up. 
 
HUNGRYROOT LINKS
Go to Hungryroot.com and use code NICEGUY40 for 40% off your first order and a free gift
 
MELANIE HAMLETT'S LINKS
https://www.melaniehamlett.com/publications
Mel's Tiktok
Mel's Youtube
 
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When A "Nice Guy" Tiktoker Weaponizes WOMEN

When a "Nice Guy" 'feminist" Tiktoker is told his take on a topic needs some adjustment... what is he to do? Be accountable like he demands of other men? Of course not! He does the one thing he can to strike back without looking "mean", he weaponizes the women who love him. 
 
Abby Rosmarin is back to share a recent run in with a "nice guy" "feminist" Tiktoker and what happens when a "Nice Guy" wants to strike back so women become his weapon. We're breaking down what happened, why we think it happened, and how to spot this very predictable "Nice Guy" Tiktoker pattern. 
 
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Abby Rosmarin's Links
Tiktok: abbyrosmarin --> Make sure to check out their Linktree 
Insta: abbyrosmarin

Send the "Nice Guys" To The Sewer With The Rat Girls (Part 2)

We're back with Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls Podcast to bring you perhaps the most terrifying tale of all... A "Nice Guy" origin story. We're swapping stories about the "Nice Guys" of Improv, Comedy, and yes... we do mention Matt Rife. DUH! 
 
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Rat Girls Links
Rat Girls Podcast 
Abby's Vibe Slut Tiktok
 

Send the "Nice Guys" To The Sewer With The Rat Girls (Part 1)

We're tired of being civilized.... it's time to get feral and release our inner rat. And we've found just the ladies to help us out. This week we're joined by Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls podcast and we're swapping stories about some seriously... sneaky.... snakey "Nice Guys".  Sss...ee what I did there?  
 
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Rat Girls Links
Rat Girls Podcast 
Abby's Vibe Slut Tiktok
 
 

When the ”Nice Guy” is Feeling Artsy w/ Seema

It's time to tackle a "Nice Guy" topic that's long overdue - the "Nice Guy" in the arts. And you know that means we had to bring on Tiktok's very own Seema! We're pulling no punches this week as we do a deep dive on these "sensitive souls". 
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Seema's Links
The ArtLust Podcast
Seema's Tiktok
The ArtLust Podcast Tiktok
 
 

New Year, New Theme Song, Same Nice Guy BS

Happy New Year and welcome back to the new season of the F the Nice Guy Podcast! We've got a new theme song and a shocking couple of stories for you.
The lovely ladies behind our new song are sharing they're Nice Guy tales of men in the music industry. When I tell you jaws were on the floor multiple times while recording.... I mean it.
So buckle up and set the rage dial to max because this episode is uncensored and unhinged. 
 
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Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page
 
TERA LYNNE FISTER
All socials: @Iamfister 
Website: iamfister.com/links 
Spotify: Tera's Spotify
 
SARA SPICER LINKS
Insta/FB: Saraspicermusic
Youtube: Sara Spicer 
Spotify: Sara's Spotify
 
 
 

Ho Ho Ho....ld Up... Santa and Love Actually Said WHAT?

It's time for the F the Nice Guy Holiday Episode! Because this Christmas, Santa brought Kate an unexpected gift... the word of God and the urge to call the police.
But we're just getting started, because after we chat about a certain Naughty St. Nick, we're diving into Love Actually. We've found out information that makes this movie WORSE ACTUALLY and proves this movie is nothing more than the "Nice Guy" Fantasy gift wrapped as a Holiday Rom Com. 
(This episode will be the last episode of the year so stay tuned for our next episode - January 6th)