F the Nice Guy

Welcome to the F the ”Nice Guy” Podcast where we unload all our stories about the ”nice guy”. You know... the guys who tricked us into believing they were nice... until they didn’t get what they wanted and proved how not nice they really were. There will be sharing sessions, interviews, and viewer submitted stories! If you have a ”nice guy” story to share that is trauma lite (no crimes or violence) send it to ftheniceguypodcast@gmail.com.

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Episodes

4 days ago

 
 
 
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Abby's Vibe Slut Tiktok

Saturday Nov 02, 2024

On this week's very special HALLOWEEN episode, we're swapping truly haunting tales from our past in the traditional spooky story style! Due to the somewhat silly nature of our storytelling, all of these stories are extremely trauma-lite but are sure to spook you (at least a little).  
 
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Patreon : Patreon!
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Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

Saturday Oct 26, 2024

Spotting a manipulative "Nice Guy" in the early days isn't easy, but it's not impossible. We've brought back covert abuse expert Eleni Sagredos to talk about some of the red flags to look out for with a covert "nice guy" narcissist. And yes... we do talk about the "Jonah Hill" manipulation tactic. 
 
Eleni's Links
Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense 
Eleni's AMAZING book!
 
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Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

Saturday Oct 19, 2024

This week is an extra long episode, but what would you expect when Kate and Regan are breaking down this season of Love is Blind?!? And might we just say... this season may be the worst yet. The damage isn't being done by blatant assholes. It's being done by "nice", "feminist", "god-loving" gentlemen". Grab a drink, grab a snack, and buckle up because we're taking you through this season and all it's jaw dropping twists and turns. 
 
Black Honey. Jamila recently had a run-in with a "nice guy" self-proclaimed patriarchy deconstructor. He made a video about how women need to stop taking it out on men, let go of the "I hate men" mantra, and heal the trauma they "let" men give them so that they can be in community with "the good men".
When Jamila tried to tell him it was a bad take, things went from bad to worse where he literally laughs in their face. Buckle up friends, this one is a hypocritical infuriating doozy. 
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

Saturday Oct 12, 2024

This week Regan's joined by the amazing Jamila aka Tiktok's Bright Black Honey. Jamila recently had a run-in with a "nice guy" self-proclaimed patriarchy deconstructor. He made a video about how women need to stop taking it out on men, let go of the "I hate men" mantra, and heal the trauma they "let" men give them so that they can be in community with "the good men".
When Jamila tried to tell him it was a bad take, things went from bad to worse where he literally laughs in their face. Buckle up friends, this one is a hypocritical infuriating doozy. 
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)
 
JAMILA'S LINKS
Tiktok MAIN
Tiktok #2
Jamila's Arbitrator Video
 

Friday Oct 04, 2024

We're back baby! On this week's episode, we're appealing Reddit's verdict on whether or not a mom who was disappointed in her 40th birthday is the asshole. We've got the facts, the anecdotal evidence, and all the opinions. In the end, you get to be the judge! 
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

Saturday Sep 07, 2024

Recently a woman online did the unthinkable... she asked men on Tiktok "Why are you all seemingly resistant to evolving the definition of manhood you simultaneously hate to live by?" 
Of course, many men had many things to say. But one man in particular caught our attention. He presents himself as a "nice guy", a "reasonable guy", and seemingly a "guy who gets it". But when you break down his argument you see... what he really is... is WRONG. 
Kate and Regan are dissecting this "nice guy" argument to hopefully help you all be able to defend yourselves against similar men with similar tactics and talking points. Buckle up because it's a doozy and quite honestly a RANT. 
 
IMPORTANT NOTE: Regan is going out of town so this week we did an extra-long episode. Instead of cutting it into two episodes, we left it as is and will be skipping posting next week. Then back to our regular schedule. 
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

Saturday Aug 31, 2024

We're back with Part 2 of our discussion about the "nice guys" that did us dirtier than we remembered. And this week we're talking about two stories that we unpacked recently - meaning our conversation is a little more raw than normal. 
 
Oh and ... Fun Fact - Regan has some horrible virus this week so apologies for the scary intro. 
 
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Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

Saturday Aug 24, 2024

Have you ever had the unfortunate displeasure of realizing that the "Nice Guy" from your past was even worse than you remember? This week Kate and Regan are taking a journey down memory lane to unpack the "nice guy" situations that they now realized they were seeing through rose-colored glasses.
In part one, we talk about the guy who stalked Regan for 2 years in college and the school's administration that excused, ignored, and frankly facilitated his abuse. And yes, we are bringing receipts. 
 
EPISODES MENTIONED: 
"Nice Guys", Mean Girls, Stalkers, OH MY! (Date: March 25, 2023) 
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)
 
 

Saturday Aug 17, 2024

We're back with Eleni to finish off our conversation on narcissism. Picking up right where we left off, we're talking about the discard, hoovering, reverse hoovering, and our final thoughts on the narcissism cycle and red flags. 
Oh and lucky for you... the audio is better! 
Eleni's Links
Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense 
Eleni's AMAZING book!
 
F THE NICE GUY LINKS
Patreon : Patreon!
Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy
Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Youtube Page)

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Welcome to the F the "Nice Guy" Podcast

This is the podcast where we share our "nice guy" stories! You know... the guys that wear niceness like a mask to get what they want. But drop that mask as soon as they don't get what they want? Yeah. Those guys. 

 

And if you have your own story about a "nice guy" that is trauma lite (no crimes or violence) please submit it to ftheniceguypodcast@gmail.com

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